Wadatacce
- 1. Yi shiri a gaba
- 2. Buga ma'auni
- 3. Takeauki lokaci don warewa
- 4. Ka zama mai sassauci
- 5. Ajiye wayarka
Fitawa tare da abokin tarayya na iya zama hanya mai ban sha'awa don sake haɗawa, sake tabbatar da ƙaunar junan ku, ko wuce wani ɗan dutse a cikin alakar ku. Idan da gaske kuna son jin fa'idar tafiya ta soyayya kuna buƙatar shirya gaba.
Akwai wasu matakai da zaku iya ɗauka don taimakawa hutun ma'auratan ku zama cikakkiyar ƙwarewa a gare ku da abokin aikin ku. EShores masu ba da balaguron balaguro kwanan nan sun yi aiki tare da ƙwararrun masu aure da alaƙa don nemo manyan nasihun su don sake saduwa da matarka a kan hanyar soyayya.
1. Yi shiri a gaba
Wannan ba yana nufin dole ne ku tsara kowane lokacin hutu na ku ba amma yin taɗi tare da abokin aikin ku kafin tafiya game da tsare -tsaren ku, musamman abin da kuke so daga hutun, kyakkyawan tunani ne. Rachel MacLynn, wanda ya kafa shafin sada zumunta The Vida Consultancy, ya ce- “Tattauna duk wani abu da kuke son yi musamman, domin ku iya yin shiri yadda ya kamata kuma ku guji duk wata ƙaramar muhawara.”
Zauna tare da matarka kuma ku tashi inda kuke son ziyarta, abin da kuke son gani, kuma ku duba tun da farko cewa komai yana iya yiwuwa a cikin lokacin ku. Abu na ƙarshe da kuke so shine ku tsara duk ranar yawon buɗe ido kawai don tashi don gano cewa abubuwan jan hankali sun rufe, ko tazara tsakanin su yana nufin dole ku rasa wani abu.
Shirya ɗan lokaci na iya haifar da babban bambanci idan ya zo ga guje wa muhawara mara amfani.
2. Buga ma'auni
Lokacin da kuke shirin tafiya, yi hankali kada ku ɗora wa kanku abubuwa da yawa da za ku yi. Dalilin da yasa kuke wannan tafiya shine don sake haɗawa da abokin aikin ku kuma kuna buƙatar ba da lokaci don zama tare da juna.
Francesca Hogi, Kocin Soyayya da Rayuwa ya ba da shawarar cewa-
"Ba ku tsara jadawalin ayyuka da yawa waɗanda ba ku da lokacin rarrabuwa da shakatawa tare".
Barin lokaci don hutawa da annashuwa - in ba haka ba, zaku iya gajiya da kanku kuma ku rasa damar da za ku more kamfanin abokin auren ku.
3. Takeauki lokaci don warewa
Wannan na iya zama abin ƙima a lokacin hutun ma'aurata amma ba da lokacinku don nisanta da abokin tarayya yana da mahimmanci. Masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam da mashawarcin ma'aurata, Tina B Tessina, ya ba da shawarar ku-
“Yi shirin yin lokaci tare tare da raba lokaci. A lokacin hutu, mun saba kasancewa cikin wuraren da aka keɓe: dakunan otal, dakunan jirgi, jiragen sama, da motoci. Kuna iya ganin wannan kusanci ne da yawa, don haka ku shirya samun hutu daga lokaci zuwa lokaci.
Lokacin da akwai abubuwa daban -daban da kuke so, yin su daban -daban na iya ba kowannenku ɗan hutu, rage tashin hankali, da sabunta lokacin da kuka yi tarayya.
4. Ka zama mai sassauci
Shiryawa yana da matukar mahimmanci ga hutun ma'aurata, amma ba za ku iya sarrafa komai ba kuma yakamata ku yarda cewa wasu abubuwa na iya tafiya yadda kuke so. Koyi yarda cewa wannan yana da kyau!
Dr. Brian Jory, Mashawarcin Ma'aurata, kuma Mawallafi ya ce-
“Ku zama masu sassauci. Kuna tafiya tare don barin abin duniya kuma ana iya faɗi a baya. Yi shi kasada, ba neman samun komai kamar na gida ba. Kowane ɗan ƙaramin abin da ba daidai ba shine damar kasancewa ba tare da ɓata lokaci ba kuma ya tashi zuwa wurin.”
5. Ajiye wayarka
A cikin duniyar yau, abu ne mai sauƙi don kamawa cikin fasaha. Muna amfani da wayoyinmu da kwamfutar tafi -da -gidanka don nishaɗi, sadarwa, da kuma kasancewa tare da abubuwan da ke faruwa a duniyar da ke kewaye da mu. Amma lokacin da kuke hutu tare da matarka, yakamata ku kara himma don cire kanku daga wayarku, kwamfutar tafi -da -gidanka, da kwamfutar hannu, da koyan shakatawa a cikin kamfanin abokin aikin ku ba tare da shagala ba.
Dennie Smith, Wanda ya Kafa Tsohuwar Salo, yana ba da shawarar zama a kashe wayarka-
“Ajiye wayoyinku da kwamfyutocin tafi -da -gidanka. Yi amfani da mafi yawan lokacin ku tare da juna, bincika inda za ku je hutu, ku ji daɗin yin hira game da abubuwan gani da ido da rana. ”
Kasancewa akan wayarku ko wasu na'urorin lantarki yana da haɗarin sanya shinge tsakanin ku da abokin aikin ku, yana hana ku samun fa'ida daga tafiyar ku. Yi la'akari da lokutan yarjejeniya lokacin da zaku iya bincika saƙonni da imel kuma ku bar wayoyi kawai don sauran tafiya.