Wadatacce
Akwai tatsuniyoyin gama gari da ke cewa maza suna tunanin yin jima'i kowane sakan bakwai, amma yaya nisa daga gaskiya wannan yake a zahiri?
A cikin 'yan shekarun nan an ci gaba da yin karatu game da yawan tunanin jima'i da maza da mata suke yi yayin rayuwarsu ta yau da kullun. Bayan tunani game da jima'i, wani bincike ya nuna cewa maza ma suna tunani daidai game da abinci da bacci.
Da alama akwai abubuwa da yawa masu tasiri waɗanda ke shafar sha'awar jima'i na mutum. Ana amfani da ilimin halittar maza da neurochemistry ta wata hanya daban da ta mace. Wasu abubuwan sha'awar jima'i ana ƙaddara su ta hanyar DNA na mutum, matakan testosterone, kuma ba shakka masu ƙima na zamantakewa da al'adu.
Terri Fisher, mai bincike daga Jami'ar Ohio, ya yi bincike kan ɗaliban kwaleji 283, a ƙoƙarin gano sau nawa maza ke tunanin jima'i a kullum.
Ta gano a ƙarshen binciken cewa maza suna tunanin matsakaici game da jima'i sau goma sha tara a rana, yayin da mata ke tunani game da shi goma kawai. Babban wanda ake kara a cikin binciken ya yi tunani game da jima'i har sau ɗari uku da tamanin da takwas a cikin kwana ɗaya kawai.
Jiki yana kwadayin shi
Ba kamar mata ba, waɗanda ke da hangen nesa da tunani da ɗabi'a yayin kusanci jima'i, sha'awar jikin mutum ne ke motsa shi ta atomatik saboda yawan testosterone wanda ake samarwa da shi kuma yana motsawa ta cikin jijiyoyin jini.
Samari suna da kayan gini nan take kuma galibi suna yin ƙarin tunani game da jima'i saboda yawan adadin testosterone da jikinsu ke samarwa.
Ƙananan matakin testosterone ta atomatik yana nufin ƙarancin libido.
Namijin libido yana kunshe ne a cikin takamaiman wurare guda biyu na kwakwalwa, wadanda ake kira cortex na kwakwalwa da tsarin limbic. Hanyoyin jijiyoyin jiki waɗanda ke haifar da tsagewa a cikin jikin mutum suna cikin cortex na kwakwalwa, yayin da ake samun motsawa da motsa jima'i a cikin limbic.
Testosterone shine hormone wanda ke da alhakin haɓaka gabobin jima'i na maza yayin da tayin yana cikin matakan ci gaba, haɓaka gashin jiki, haɓaka tsoka, da samar da maniyyi.
Maza galibi suna tunanin manufar su a rayuwa, amma yanayi yana sanya yin kwaɗayi a matsayin babban sifa a saman jerin.
Yana tsallake girman kai
Jikin mutum inji ne da yake son koyaushe yana birgima a cike da maƙura. Wannan shine dalilin da yasa maza ke yawan tunanin jima'i.
Tunani najima'i yana motsa motsin hormonal da tashin hankali, yana tura maza zuwa ga burinsu da burinsu.
Hakanan yana iya zama abin haɓakawa saboda yin tunani sau da yawa game da jima'i yana sakin ƙarin testosterone, wanda hakan yana nufin ƙarin kuzari don cika ayyuka.
Lokacin da mutum ya sadu da mace kuma ya same ta a matsayin abokiyar zama, hasashe daban -daban ya fara tasowa a cikin tunaninsa na ƙoƙarin isar da ƙarin testosterone don kiyaye mutum ya yi kaifi sosai, ta zahiri da ta tunani.
Al'umma
Kodayake mun ambata cewa haɓaka testosterone wanda ke haifar da tunanin jima'i a cikin psyche ana iya ɗaukarsa azaman juyin juyin halitta, dole ne mu yi la'akari da yanayin zamantakewar da ake jefa mutum cikin tsawon rayuwarsa.
Cimma matsayin zamantakewa ta hanyar kafa iyali, samun 'ya'ya, kuma ta haka ne cika ɗaya daga cikin ƙa'idodin da al'umma ta ɗora masa fiye ko alsoasa shima wani bangare ne na sha'awar jima'i. Saboda muna rayuwa a cikin al'umma mai yawan mace daya, zabar abokin zama na rayuwa dole ne ya zama sau ɗaya a cikin zaɓin rayuwa.
Ga mutum, zaɓi abokin tarayya wanda ya dace da jiki da tausaya tare da shi yana da wayo, kuma wannan yana barin ɗimbin buƙatun da ba a gamsu da su ba, wanda kuma biyun ya biya diyya ta hanyar ƙirƙiro rudu.
Jima'i yana ko'ina
Hanyoyin gani waɗanda ke da alaƙa da jima'i suna nan ko'ina a cikin jama'ar zamani.
Ana tallata tallace -tallace sosai tare da hotunan jima'i da abubuwan haɗin gwiwa don haɓaka abubuwan talla. Tallace -tallacen zamani ya cika da sha’awar jima’i, kuma wannan yana taka rawa sosai a cikin tunanin banza da ke ratsa zukatan maza. Kasancewa mai saukin kamuwa da tallace -tallace ta atomatik yana nufin ƙarin riba ga kamfanonin da ke tallata samfuran su da hotunan jima'i.
Kodayake da alama maza ba koyaushe suke tunanin jima'i ba sau da yawa kamar yadda aka ce suna yi, suna yin tunani sosai fiye da mata. Ba haka ba ne kamar yadda kuke tsammani, amma duk ya dogara da mutum da yanayin.