Wadatacce
- Shawara Mai Ban Sha'awa ga Amarya
- Nasiha Mai Nishaɗi Ga Masu Aure
- Shawara Mai Ban Dadi Ga Duka
- Menene muka koya daga waɗannan nasihohin?
Bikin aure yana ba da dama ga kowa da kowa ya ba da mafi kyawun kawukansu, da nasiha mai ban sha'awa ga amarya da ango suna ci gaba da zuwa. Yayin da kai da matarka ta gaba za ku shirya yin alwashi kuma ku yi ƙoƙarin bayyana ƙauna da godiya mara iyaka a cikin mafi kyawun yanayin soyayya, kowa da kowa yana neman mafi kyawun tsarin nishaɗi ga aure. Don haka, menene abin yi game da shi? Bari mu ɗan ɗan ɗan duba ɗayan waɗannan shawarwarin, kuma wataƙila sami wani amfani ga waɗannan lu'ulu'u na hikima da ba a nema ba.
Shawara Mai Ban Sha'awa ga Amarya
"Maza kamar wuta take - suna fita lokacin da ba a kula da su ba." - Zsa Zsa Gabor. Abin da Zsa Zsa yayi ƙoƙarin isarwa anan shine, daidai da na mata, bai kamata a yi sakaci da maza ba kawai saboda yanzu sun faɗi abin da nake yi. Lalaci da zawarci bai kamata ya ƙare ba.
"Aure kalma ce mai kyau don ɗaukar ɗanyen ɗigon namiji wanda iyayensa ba za su iya kula da su ba ..." - Wannan shawarar tana gaya mana ta hanyar ban dariya cewa maza sukan kasance masu ƙuruciya a wasu lokuta, amma kuma sun cancanci girmama mu, don haka a kula kada a ɗauke su a matsayin yara - kuma ba za su nuna halin su ba.
“Hanya mafi kyau don samun yawancin mazajen yin wani abu shine a ba da shawarar cewa wataƙila sun tsufa da yin hakan.” - Ann Bancroft. Wannan shine mafi munin motsawa, amma idan babu wani abin da ke aiki, an yarda.
"Yin aure kamar samun babban aboki ne wanda baya tuna da duk abin da kuka faɗi." - Mata suna magana da yawa fiye da maza, kuma galibi maza ba sa iya jin komai, ko kuma sau da yawa suna ganin ba shi da mahimmanci.
Nasiha Mai Nishaɗi Ga Masu Aure
“Kowane mutum yana son mace kyakkyawa, mai fahimta, mai tattalin arziki kuma mai dafa abinci mai kyau. Amma doka ta ba da damar mace daya ” - Wannan shawarar tana nuna cewa ba za mu iya tsammanin mace ɗaya za ta sami duka ba. Amma yakamata maza su koyi kaunar matansu kamar yadda suke kuma gane yadda suka bambanta da ban mamaki.
“Abubuwa biyu sun zama dole don kiyaye mace farin ciki. Na farko, bari ta yi tunanin tana da nata hanyar. Na biyu kuma, bari ta samu. ” - Mata sukan saba da wani abu idan sun yi imani sun yi daidai, kuma wannan shawarar tana bayyana wa maza cewa hanya mai sauƙi hanya ce kawai don bayarwa.
“Sauraren mata kamar karanta sharuɗɗa & yanayin gidan yanar gizo ne. Ba ku fahimci komai ba, amma har yanzu, kuna cewa: "Na yarda!" - Mai kama da ɗaya daga cikin nasihohi masu ban dariya na baya, wannan yana bayyana cewa mata ba kawai suna magana da yawa ba, amma suna magana daidai gwargwado fiye da maza, hasashen su na duniya ya bambanta, kuma biyu suna buƙatar ɗan lokaci don nemo yare ɗaya.
"Lokacin da mace ta ce" Menene? ", Ba wai saboda ba ta ji ku ba, tana ba ku zarafin canza abin da kuka faɗi." - Har ila yau, da alama mata suna buƙatar tabbatar da cewa sun yi daidai fiye da yadda maza ke yi, ko don haka ya bayyana daga mahangar namiji. Kuma hanya mafi sauri, amma ba lallai ba ce madaidaiciya, ita ce mika wuya. Duk da haka, mafi kyawun ra'ayi shine tabbatarwa da girmama sadarwa na bambance -bambance.
Shawara Mai Ban Dadi Ga Duka
"Ma'aurata: wani wanda zai tsaya tare da ku cikin duk wahalar da ba za ku samu ba idan da kun kasance marasa aure." - Hanya mai ban dariya da gaske na nuna cewa aure aiki ne mai wahala sosai don gyara sabani. Amma, fa'idodin galibi suna wuce matsalolin.
“Duk aure yana da daɗi. Rayuwa tare bayan haka ne ke haifar da dukkan matsaloli. ” - Raymond Hull. Abin da Hull ke ba da shawara shi ne, wataƙila, bin ƙa'idodin tsarin aure da tsauri na iya zama sanadin lamuran da yawa waɗanda za a iya guje musu tare da sassauci.
“Soyayya makauniya ce. Amma aure yana dawo da ganinsa. ” - Kodayake wannan shawarar tana nufin ta ɗan yi baƙin ciki, amma kuma tana da wani ɓangaren nata, wanda shine gaskiyar cewa a cikin aure, mun san wani mutum sosai don mu fahimci kurakuran su, kuma, a zahiri, zo mu ƙaunace su.
“A rayuwa, ya kamata koyaushe mu buɗe idanunmu a buɗe. Koyaya, bayan aure, ya fi kyau a rufe su a wasu lokuta! ” - ... Kuma mu jure wa kurakuran abokin rayuwar mu, maimakon mu kori matar mu akan su.
Menene muka koya daga waɗannan nasihohin?
A ƙarshe, kamar kowane muhimmin abu a rayuwa, za a iya samun shawara guda ɗaya wacce ta cancanci ɗauka, kuma shine - kada ku taɓa yin abin da ya saɓa wa ƙa'idodin ku da imanin ku. Idan kuka yi, za ku rasa kanku, kuma kada ku zama nagari ba don kan ku kawai ba har ma ga matar aure da dangin ku. Don haka, duk waɗannan nasihohin suna bayyana abubuwa da yawa game da yanayin ɗan adam da yadda yawancin aure ke faruwa, amma ba sa faɗi abu ɗaya a sarari, kuma shine - koyaushe ku girmama kanku, ƙaunatattunku, da bambance -bambancen ku. Wannan ita ce kawai hanyar samun farin ciki.