Wadatacce
- 1. Yarda
- 2. Jin dadi
- 3. Soyayya sama da kasa
- 4. Ka fahimci cewa jima’i zai canza a kan kari
- 5. Yarda da bambance -bambance
- 6. Shirye don fuskantar duk wani ƙalubale
- 7. Girmama juna
- 8. Jin dadi
- Wakar soyayya madawwami
- Maganar soyayya madawwami
Dukanmu muna mafarkin ƙauna madawwami. Labarin soyayya wanda yake tafiya tsawon shekaru masu zuwa. Amincewa da jin daɗin soyayya yana kasancewa sabo da shekaru da shekaru masu zuwa. Koyaya, ba mutane da yawa ke iya cimma wannan ba; wasu ma basu sani ba idan sun cimma hakan.
Don haka, bari mu yi bikin soyayya kuma mu kalli ma'anar madawwamiyar ƙauna, wasu daga cikin manyan waƙoƙi da wasu maganganu masu taɓa zuciya.
Soyayya ita ce soyayya kawai. Yana nufin babu abin da za a yi tsammanin wani abu a ciki. Shi ne don sa wasu su ji daɗi, farin ciki da kwanciyar hankali komai komai. Soyayya ba za ta taba yin nadama ba. Hollywood ta ba mu wasu manyan fina -finan labarin soyayya na zamaninmu kamar The Notebook, P.S. Ina son ku a tsakanin wasu. A cikin fina -finai suna magana game da so na gaskiya ko na har abada ga junansu, amma ta yaya za a san idan kuna cikin 'ainihin' soyayya? Bari mu duba cikin sauri kafin mu ci gaba.
Ta yaya za ku sani idan kuna cikin madawwamiyar ƙauna?
1. Yarda
Ma'anar ƙauna madawwami tana bayyana da kyau kuma yana nuna yadda ake sanin lokacin da kuke soyayya. Lokacin da kuke soyayya, cikin madawwamiyar ƙauna, kuna karɓar mutum yadda suke.
Ba ku son canza su kaɗan; kuna kau da kai daga mummunan gefen su, banda ku kuna ƙaunar kowane ɗayan su. Wannan yana faruwa ne kawai lokacin da kuka sami damar gani ta cikin zuciyarsu kuma kun san cewa sune naku. Yana da mahimmanci a sami soyayya mai dorewa. Inda ba a yarda da mutumin ga wanda suke ba, tabbas za a sami wasu rikice -rikice yayin da lokaci ya wuce.
2. Jin dadi
Yaushe ne lokacin ƙarshe da kuka sami farin ciki na dindindin lokacin da kuka murƙushe wani? Ba ya faruwa.
Lokacin da kuka sami murkushewa, zaku kasance cikin nutsuwa da farin ciki na ɗan lokaci sannan sannu a hankali ya ɓace. Duk da haka, sannan kuna cikin madawwamiyar ƙauna, za ku ga an kewaye ku da farin ciki na kwanaki, makonni da ma watanni.
Abubuwan da ke kewaye da ku za su canza kuma ba zato ba tsammani za ku ji daɗin kowane ɗan kwanakin ku, tare da wannan mutumin ko tare da tunanin wannan mutumin.
3. Soyayya sama da kasa
Dukanmu mun san cewa alaƙar tana wucewa sama da ƙasa amma ba da yawa suna shirye su ƙaunaci wannan kuma su karɓe shi azaman ɓangaren rayuwa. Koyaya, lokacin da kuke cikin madawwamiyar ƙauna, kuna ƙaunar kowane ɓangaren dangantakar, har ma da mara kyau.
Don haka, ba zato ba tsammani kun tsinci kanku a cikin yanayin da sama da ƙasa ba sa shafar tsananin ƙaunarka ga abokin tarayya kwata -kwata.
4. Ka fahimci cewa jima’i zai canza a kan kari
Jima'i muhimmin bangare ne na kowace dangantaka.
Koyaya, ba mutane da yawa ke fahimta kamar dangantakar ku ba, har ma da jima'i yana shiga matakai daban -daban. Yana da sha'awa a farkon sannan kuma bayan haihuwa yana mikewa kuma daga baya a cikin shekaru yana faruwa ba kasafai ba. Koyaya, lokacin da kuke cikin madawwamiyar ƙauna, kuna son yin watsi da komai kuma ku ƙaunaci kowane matakin jima'i. Don kasancewa tare da abokin tarayya yana da mahimmanci fiye da komai.
5. Yarda da bambance -bambance
Babu mutane biyu iri ɗaya. Abin ba in ciki, da yawa ba sa iya fahimtar wannan lokacin da suka shiga dangantaka. Koyaya, abin ya bambanta lokacin da wani ke cikin madawwamiyar ƙauna. Suna fahimtar haka kuma suna yarda da mutum koda kuwa suna da wasu bambance -bambance. Bambance -bambancen ba ze dame su ba sam. Suna hauka cikin soyayya ko ta yaya.
6. Shirye don fuskantar duk wani ƙalubale
Dangantaka hanya ce mai wahala.
Wani lokaci shi rana ce rana kuma wasu kwanaki suna cike da gajimare mai duhu. Ana gwada soyayya sau da yawa kuma wanda ke cikin madawwamiyar ƙauna cikin sauƙin tafiya duk wani ƙalubale da rayuwa ta jefa su. Suna fafatawa ko neman mafita ga matsalolin su tare. Duk abin da ya shafe su shi ne haɗin kansu a ƙarshen rana.
7. Girmama juna
Girmama cikin dangantaka yana zuwa ta atomatik.
Babu wanda ke nema ko aka tilasta masa. A cikin madawwamiyar ƙauna, tana zuwa ta atomatik. Kuna ganin abubuwa masu kyau a cikin abokin tarayya kuma kuna farin cikin kasancewa tare da su.
Sau da yawa kuna iya samun kanku kuna magana game da kyawawan abubuwan abokin tarayya ga wasu. Wannan yana magana sosai game da ku da kuma yadda kuke soyayya da abokin tarayya. Duk da haka, ba koyaushe kuke alfahari da shi ba, saboda a ƙasa kuna san yadda kuke ƙaunar abokin tarayya.
8. Jin dadi
Wannan zai zama ƙauna ta har abada mafi mahimmancin al'amari. Jin lafiya yana da mahimmanci. Ƙananan shakku na iya lalata alaƙar ku gaba ɗaya. Don haka, a cikin madawwamiyar ƙauna, kuna jin kwanciyar hankali fiye da da. Ka sani, komai komai, abokin tarayya zai kasance kusa da kai koyaushe.
Wakar soyayya madawwami
- Ba na so in rasa soyayyar ku - John O'Banion
- Tekun Soyayya - Masu Ruwan Zuma
- Mafi Kyawun Ni-Olivia Newton-John/David Foster
- Domin kun ƙaunace ni - Celine Dion
- Ƙauna marar iyaka - Lionel Richie & Diana Ross
- Harshen Wuta - Bangles
Maganar soyayya madawwami
- Taurari, yanayin ya rataye a sama kuma ya cika fitilunsu da madawwamin mai, suna ba da haske ga matafiyi mai ɓata da kadaici. - John Milton
- Rai yana dawwama, kuma ƙwarewar ilmantarwa shine rayuwa bayan rayuwa
- Ina son ku san abu ɗaya, koyaushe zan kasance mai gaskiya a gare ku, kuma koyaushe zan ce muku, ina son ku. - Auliq Ice
- Kai ne kowane dalili, kowane bege, da kowane mafarkin da na taɓa yi. - Nicholas Sparks