Mata suna da jerin abubuwan da suke fatan mijin su ya daina yi. Wannan na iya haɗawa da jefar da safa a ƙasa ko barin ɓarna a kan tebur amma mafi ban haushi yanzu shine kuskuren ƙawancen ku don kwarkwasa. Maza sau da yawa suna tunanin matansu suna yin kwarkwasa da wasu maza yayin da kawai suke nuna hali da nuna halaye masu kyau. Kodayake abin haushi da takaici a wasu lokuta, akwai dalilai na kimiyya a bayan sa.
Ga dalilin da yasa mijinki yake tunanin kuna kwarkwasa da wasu maza.
Rashin fahimtar Jima'i
Maza sau da yawa suna tunanin mata suna kwarkwasa lokacin da kawai suke da ladabi saboda wani abin da ake kira rashin fahimtar jima'i. Wannan sabon abu ba wai kawai ke da alhakin mijinki yana tunanin kuna kwarkwasa da wasu maza ba amma shine dalilin da yasa wasu mazan suka yi kuskuren halayen sada zumunci a matsayin alamar sha'awa ma. Rashin fahimtar jima'i shine ainihin rashin fahimtar ƙawance don sha'awar jima'i. Masana kimiyya sunyi imanin wannan shine sakamakon kai tsaye na ka'idar gudanar da kuskure. Sun yi imanin cewa maza sun samo asali ne don fahimtar kyakkyawar kawancen mace yayin sadarwa don gujewa rasa damar samun damar haifuwa da yada kwayoyin halittar su.
Illar Juyin Halitta
Tabbas, a cikin al'umma ta yau, maza ba su mai da hankali kan hayayyafa ba amma har yanzu tsinkaye ya kasance! Al'adar ma wani bangare ne na laifi amma bisa ga bincike, ba ta taka rawa kamar yadda kuke tsammani. A shekara ta 2003, masana ilimin halin ɗan adam na ƙasar Norway sun yanke shawarar bincika wannan lamari tsakanin maza da mata a Norway, ƙasar da aka sani da daidaiton jinsi. Bayan haka an kwatanta bayanan da binciken da aka yi a Amurka kuma sakamakon ya yi kama sosai wanda ke nuna juyin halitta a matsayin babban dalilin.
Kasan Kasa
A cewar masana kimiyya, da alama maza suna da wuyar yin kuskuren ɗabi'a da sadarwar rashin jima'i don kwarkwasa. Hanya mafi kyau don kula da wannan tasirin juyin halitta shine tabbatar da dogaro ga dangantakar ku. Lokacin da akwai aminci a cikin aure, mijinki zai san ainihin niyyar ku.