Wadatacce
- 1. Farin ciki, girmamawa, da sadaukarwa
- 2. Fara iyali
- 3. Girma a matsayin ma'aurata
- 4. Yin aiki don cimma buri guda
- 5. Jin daɗi
- 6. Kariya
- 7. Cikaka
Aure wata al'ada ce da al'umma ke bin ta a cikin 'yan shekarun da suka gabata.
A cikin wannan lokacin, an sami canje -canje da yawa ga imani da hanyoyin tunani waɗanda ke da alaƙa da tsarin aure.
A baya, ana ɗaukar sahihiyar musayar tsakanin namiji da mace; mata da ba a ba su izini a wuraren aiki suna son samun isasshen kuɗi yayin da maza suka zaɓi yin aure don magada don haka, aure alama ce cikakkiyar amsa ga waɗannan matsalolin biyu.
A wannan zamani, manufar aure ta canza sosai. Mutane sun fi neman aure da yawa
Duk wani abu da kuke yi a rayuwa yana buƙatar ku don saita manufa ko samun manufa. Haka ma aure!
Akwai karatu iri-iri kan ma’anar aure na zamani, da ma’anar aure dangane da fannoni daban-daban kamar sanin kai, zaɓin mata, da dai sauransu.
Amma menene manufar yin aure?
Lokacin yin aure, kuna buƙatar tabbatar da abin da kuke so ku nema daga wannan alaƙar kuma a ƙarshe kuna son ganin ta.
Rashin ƙaddara, ƙira mai ma'ana, ko saita maƙasudin aure mara kyau na iya haifar da fuskantar matsalar kiyaye alaƙar ku da ɗaukar ta zuwa ga nasara. Za ku iya shiga mawuyacin tambayoyi kamar 'Shin aure ya zama dole?'
Saboda aure yana raguwa kwanan nan, mutane da yawa suna tambayar menene ma'anar aure kuma me yasa aure yake da mahimmanci.
Ga wasu 'yan abubuwa don taimaka muku fahimtar manufar aure da abin da ake nufi da aure.
1. Farin ciki, girmamawa, da sadaukarwa
Mutanen da ke da maslahohi iri ɗaya sune waɗanda suka ƙaunaci juna kuma suka yanke shawarar ɗaure kansu cikin ɗaurin aure.
Abin sani kawai yana da ma'ana cewa ma'auratan da suke yin tunani iri ɗaya suna son zama tare da kyau. Lokacin da ku biyun kuke neman makasudi iri a rayuwa, ku biyun kuna aiki tare don cimma su.
Ana ganin ma'auratan da suke da manufa ɗaya ta rayuwa kuma suna yin ƙoƙarin cimma hakan, suna kafa harsashin samun nasarar aure. Irin waɗannan ma'aurata suna tallafawa juna ta kowane hali, suna godiya, suna son juna, kuma suna raba farin ciki akan farin ciki na kowa.
2. Fara iyali
Ma'aurata da yawa suna son yara ba da daɗewa ba bayan yin aure. Yana da yawa ga ma'aurata su haifi yara bayan aure kuma su ɗauke shi a matsayin muhimmiyar manufar yin aure. Wannan ya dace.
Ana ganin yara a matsayin hanyar fadada layin dangi, don tura al'adun iyali gami da gado na iyali. Haka kuma yara kan kusantar da ma’aurata kusa da junansu, kuma soyayyarsu ga junansu kawai ke girma.
Kasancewar ɓoyayyen yanki a cikin cikakken iyali, yara kuma suna haɓaka alamar matsayin ma'aurata a matsayin cikakken iyali shine abin da ake ɗauka a matsayin farin ciki, nasara aure.
3. Girma a matsayin ma'aurata
Damar yin girma da haɓaka tare da abokin tarayya shine ɗayan mafi kyawun kyaututtukan aure.
Kuna iya koyo da canzawa zuwa mafi kyawun sigar kanku, zama abin da kuke so koyaushe. Girma yana shimfiɗa iyakokin yankin ku na ta'aziyya kuma yana tura ku zuwa iyakokin ku don fitar da mafi girman ƙarfin ku a matsayin ɗan adam.
Wannan yana da kyau a gare ku don kiyaye auren ku da rai kuma yana faruwa.
Ofaya daga cikin fa'idodin aure shine cewa ku da abokin aikin ku za ku koyi yin haɗin gwiwa tare da juna kuma a maimakon haka ku taimaki juna yin aiki cikin mawuyacin hali.
Yayin da kuke girma, kuna da kyakkyawar sha'awar abokin tarayya. Za ku fara yin ƙarin abin da ke faranta wa abokin tarayya ku, ku tsaya kusa da su, kuma ku tallafa musu ta kowane fanni yayin kare abokin tarayya daga duk abin da zai sa su cikin damuwa.
4. Yin aiki don cimma buri guda
Yin aure yana tabbatar muku da cewa akwai wanda yake son ku.
Jin an tabbatar da shi babban ƙarfafawa ne ga girman kai kuma yana haɓaka ibada tsakanin ma'auratan.
Lokacin da abokan tarayya biyu ke ƙaunar junansu, su ma suna girmama juna tare da mayar da hankali gaba ɗaya kan bunƙasa alƙawarin su maimakon tura juna ƙasa.
Dangantaka tana buƙatar samun ƙarin aminci, ƙauna, da girmamawa, kuma babu dakin gasa da bacin rai wanda ake ɗauka shine maƙasudin aure.
5. Jin daɗi
Ofaya daga cikin dalilan yin aure babbar kyauta ce ta jin daɗi. Akwai alfanu iri -iri na aure. Koyaya, samun jin daɗin kanku a cikin alaƙar shine babban manufar aure.
Ba wannan kawai ba, abokin tarayya yakamata ya zama tushen jin daɗin ku da farin ciki kuma.
6. Kariya
Ofaya daga cikin fa'idodin aure shine kariyar da ma'aurata ke baiwa juna. Kamata ya yi a kiyaye kare muradun juna, na gida da na yara.
Gabaɗaya, kariya a matakai da yawa da matakai daban -daban na rayuwa suna gina manufar aure. Yana kuma zama daya daga cikin fa'idar yin aure.
7. Cikaka
Me yasa za ayi aure?
Manufar yin aure ita ce ta kai mu ga cikawa ko cikar rayuwa. Lokacin da kuka yi aure, kun shiga cikin mahimmin yanayin rayuwa wanda ke kai ku zuwa ga mafi farin ciki.
Idan kuna jin ku kaɗai a cikin aure, wannan yana ɗaya daga cikin alamun da ya kamata ku yi aiki da shi tare don yin tafiya mai wadatarwa.
A cikin bidiyon da ke ƙasa, Sharon Paparoma ya tattauna gwagwarmaya a cikin auren da ba a yanke ba. Tattaunawar tana tantance ko ma'auratan za su iya gyara aurensu kuma su sake yin kyau ko kuma idan lokaci ya yi da za su saki auren cikin ƙauna.
Karshe tafi
Ance aure shine hanyar gamsar da goyan bayan yan uwa ta hanyoyi daban -daban, tausayawa, jima'i, da tunani. Ana daukar aure a matsayin muhimmin mataki a rayuwar mutum.
Manufar auren da aka ambata a sama shine don taimaka muku fahimtar abin da ake nufi da aure da sanya tsammanin gaske daga ciki.