Wadatacce
- Ƙaunar ƙuruciya ta tabbata
- Shawara
- Shirye -shiryen auren
- A ƙarshe, ranar bikin aure!
- Shawara daga sabuwar amaryar Jessica
Soyayya tana cin dukkan matsaloli, tana mamaye dukkan cikas, kuma tana yin tasiri ga duk wani iko wanda ba zai yiwu ba ~ William Godwin
Dangantaka tsakanin rikicin COVID-19 babu shakka tana fuskantar ƙalubale daban-daban-musamman idan aka sake yin tunani kan shirye-shiryen bikin aure.
Shin wannan yakamata ya shafi dangantakar ku? Babu shakka!
Idan kuna mamakin yadda ake yin aure a wannan mawuyacin lokaci, karanta tare don labarin bikin aure mai ban sha'awa na Jessica Hocken da Nathan Allen wanda ya faru a cikin ƙuntatawa na kullewa.
Sagawar su ta kama -karya bikin aure wahayi ne ga duk waɗanda ke da himmar shawo kan wannan yanayin.
Ƙaunar ƙuruciya ta tabbata
Maris 21, 2020, ita ce ranar da masoyan makarantar sakandare, Jessica Hocken da Nathan Allen, tare da ƙauna mai yawa a idanunsu, suka faɗi kalmomin sihiri guda biyu 'Ina yi' a cikin busasshen hamada na Arizona.
Ba a samun wurin da suka yi ajiyar farko kuma bikin auren bai yi yadda suka yi tsammani ba.
Kuma duk da haka, duk al'amarin ya zama abin ban mamaki, tare da sabbin ma'auratan suna cewa ba zai iya zama mafi soyayya ba
Shawara
Ya kasance Mayu 2019, lokacin da tsuntsayen soyayya suka yi yawo a kan tekun gefen teku a Seattle, kuma Nathan ya durƙusa a gwiwa don ba da shawara ga Jessica.
Da yake magana da Marriage.com, Jessica ta kira gogewar 'cikakkiyar shawara ta millennial.' Kodayake ta san ana nufin faruwa wata rana, da gaske ba ta yi tsammanin hakan ba a lokacin.
Kuma a bayyane yake “Ee” daga gare ta!
Jessica kasancewa 'go-getter,' ta tafi tare da shirye-shiryen bikin aure da zaran ma'auratan sun koma Arizona.
An zaɓi wurin, kuma an tsayar da ranar daurin aure a ranar 21 ga Maris, 2020, a wani kulob na ƙasa a Scottsdale, Arizona.
Shirye -shiryen auren
Tare da jerin baƙo da Jessica da Nathan suka shirya, sun raba gayyatarsu tare da dangi da abokai kusa da Satumba 2019.
Rikicin COVID-19 bai shiga cikin bala'in duniya ba yau shine lokacin, kuma ma'auratan sun nutse sosai cikin shirye-shiryen auren.
Jessica ta gayyaci 'yan amarya guda shida, daya daga cikinsu na zaune a Hong Kong. A cikin watan Janairu ne lokacin da amarya a Hong Kong ta raba labarun kulle -kullenta kuma ta yi niyya a gaba cewa ba za ta iya zuwa bikin ba.
Janairu ya yi birgima, kuma a lokacin ne aka fara gano ƙananan cututtukan Coronavirus na farko a cikin Amurka
Kodayake ma'auratan sun san cewa tsoron Coronavirus yana zuwa, tabbas ba su yi tunanin girman tasirin da zai yi ga duniya ba.
Yayin da ranar ɗaurin aure ta kusanto, saura sati ɗaya, Arizona ta fara rufewa.
Ana iya yin bukukuwan aure amma dole ne a takaita taron ga mutane 50 kawai.
Jessica da Nathan duk da haka sun shirya yin bikin aure na sirri, don haka suka yanke shawarar ci gaba da shirye -shiryen su na asali.
Kwanaki biyar kafin a daura musu aure, wurin da aka riga aka yi musu rajista ya soke su. Tare da kwanaki biyu kacal kafin bikin aure, Jessica da Nathan sun sabunta abokansu da danginsu game da ci gaban da ba a zata ba.
Jessica ta ce, "Duk da cewa muna tunanin jinkirtawa, tare da matakin rashin tabbas, muna tunanin ya fi kyau a yi aure ko ta yaya. Kawai cewa ba mu san yadda, lokacin, da kuma inda! ”
Sun ajiye gayyata a buɗe. Amma, tare da ƙuntatawa kan balaguro da biki, ma'auratan sun san cewa yawancinsu ba za su iya yin hakan ba.
Wannan shine lokacin da ma'auratan suka yanke shawarar zuwa bikin aure akan layi. An shirya bikin auren ne ta yadda abokansu da danginsu za su kasance wani bangare na bikin aurensu yayin kulle -kullen.
Koyaya, duk waɗanda suka gayyace su sun kasance masu fahimta da goyon baya ga shawarar ma'auratan na yin aure.
A ƙarshe, ranar bikin aure!
Duk da cewa ba a yi auren ba kamar yadda ma'auratan suka yi hasashe, sun ci gaba da jan hankalinsu.
Sabuwar wurin bikin ya kasance a cikin hamadar Arizona, da kyar mintuna kaɗan daga gidan iyayen Jessica. Ba ta taɓa gane cewa wurin da ta girma ya kasance kyakkyawa kuma cikakke don shirya bikin aurenta ba!
Kuma, a ƙarshe, ranar ta zo lokacin da komai ya daidaita. Tare da duk masu siyarwa suna ba da tallafi, an ƙawata wurin bikin tare da kayan adon furanni.
Jessica ta kasance mai ban mamaki a cikin kyakkyawar rigar bikin aure irin na aljannar ruwa daga Essense na Ostiraliya wanda ya yaba da cikakkiyar gyaran gashi da kayan kwalliya ta Monique Flores. Nathan, sanye da rigar shuɗi mai kyau, ya cika amarya kyakkyawa.
Jessica ta kyalkyale da dariya yayin da take magana game da gogewarta tare da cewa: "Tare da 'yan mata biyu da mazan aure shida, Nathan yayi kama da diva."
Kuma, tare da kyakkyawan yanki na Arizona a bayan fage, ma'auratan a ƙarshe sun karanta alƙawarin auren su. Jami'in, Dee Norton, wanda ya saba da al'adar azumin hannu, ya taimaki ma'auratan da bikin auren.
Jessica da Nathan suna da dangi da abokai na kusa don halartar bikin auren, wanda ya haɗa da iyayensu da kuma kakar Jessica.
Sun yi bikin aure na tsaye don kiyaye tazara tsakanin jama'a da kiyaye kowa daga kamuwa da cutar Coronavirus.
Kuma, ta hanyar kiran bidiyo na Zoom ne ɗan'uwan Jessica a Chicago, ɗan'uwan Nathan a Dallas, da sauran masu gayyatarsu a kusan kowane yanki na Amurka, sun halarci bikin aurensu ta yanar gizo.
Bayan ma'auratan sun kulla alaƙar su ta har abada tare da sumba mai ƙarfi, Jessica da Nathan sun shayar da buƙatun zuciya da albarkun ta hanyar zaman zuƙowa.
Ma'auratan sun sami liyafar bayan gida mai kyau a gidan iyayen Jessica, kuma mahaifin Nathan ne ya fara neman duo.
Tare da shirye-shiryen lasisin aure da aka yi da yawa a gaba, ma'auratan ba su da wani dalilin damuwa kuma suna da aure ba tare da matsala ba.
Don haka, duk da rashin jituwa, tare da ƙauna da tallafi daga abokansu da danginsu, Jessica da Nathan sun yi bikin aure mafi ƙyalli da ba za su taɓa tsammani ba.
Shawara daga sabuwar amaryar Jessica
Jessica da mijinta sun bi duk ƙa'idodin da gwamnati ta kafa kuma sun bi ƙa'idodin nesanta kansu na jama'a kuma sun yi bikin aure mai kyau.
Ga waɗanda har yanzu suna mamakin- shin zai yiwu yin aure akan layi yayin rashin tabbas na cutar Coronavirus, Jesica tana da ƙaramin shawara ga ma'auratan da ke jin kamar sun makale a cikin guguwar rashin tabbas.
“Ku kasance masu buɗe ido. The ranar aure wataƙila ba zai tafi daidai yadda kuke tsammani ba, amma, wani lokacin yana ƙare zama mafi kyau fiye da abin da za ku iya tsarawa kawai saboda tsarkakakken farin cikin da ke kewaye da aure.dings. Yana da tauri amma tabbas yana da ƙima,“in ji Jessica.
"Mun rasa manyan dangi a bikin aure na kan layi kamar ɗan'uwana da ke zama a Chicago (wanda ya kasance wuri mai zafi) da ɗan'uwan Nathan wanda ke zaune a Dallas amma sun sami damar shiga ta Zoom.
Mutane da yawa ba su iya yin hakan ba amma kuma, kawai ambaliyar da safe, misali 'yan matan amaryata suna aiko min da bidiyonsu a cikin rigunan amarya, suna kallo, ko kuma suna shirye -shiryen tare da ni duk da suna cikin wata ƙasa ko ƙasa dabam, ta taɓa gaske. Mutane da gaske sun fahimci yanayin kuma me yasa za mu so mu ci gaba da tafiya. Na ji kamar yana da taimako sosai, ”in ji Jessica.
Yayin da lokacin keɓewa ke ci gaba da ƙaruwa, labarin Jessica yana cikin wasu da yawa waɗanda ke zaɓar bukukuwan kan layi ko na kama -da -wane a matsayin hanyar barin soyayya ta yi nasara a wannan lokacin rikicin. Marriage.com tana isar da fatan alheri ga duk irin waɗannan ma'aurata kuma muna fatan cewa ta hanyar waɗannan labaran, wasu za su iya samun bege da ake buƙata don bukukuwan nasu.
Ga kallon wani labarin aure mai ban sha'awa na ma'aurata da suka yi bikin auren su a Instagram yayin kulle -kullen: