Wadatacce
- Wata safiya, na farka na ji an katse ni.
- An gina 'yan adam' biyun '.
- Sadarwa
- Kun kasance "Ni," kafin ku kasance "mu,"
Rayuwa na iya zama mai sauri da fushi! Cike da abubuwan ban mamaki mafi ban mamaki, lokacin ɓacin zuciya wanda zai iya ɗaukar numfashin ku, da tashin hankali na yau da kullun! A tsakiyar duka, lokuta ne don haɗawa zuwa inda muke samun manufa ɗaya, jin daɗi, da waɗancan abubuwan da muke kira namu. Masu aure ko marasa aure, yayin da muke girma, sauye-sauyen rayuwa da gogewa suna sake haifar da mutumcinmu, da haɗin gwiwarmu da wasu.
Wata safiya, na farka na ji an katse ni.
An katse ni daga kaina, muhallina, da mijina. Na sami kaina da alaƙa da yarana, abin da suke yi na ɗan lokaci zuwa ɗan lokaci, yadda zan iya biyan buƙatun su, da kuma buƙatun jama'ar makarantarsu da ayyukan karatun waje, duk da haka a ƙarshen rana yayin da na ɗora kaina, na yi tunani. .. wanene wannan mutumin kusa da ni, kuma ni wane ne? A matsayina na mai ilimin hanyoyin kwantar da hankali, aiki tare da ma'aurata, yakamata in san yadda ake yin wannan, kuma in san yadda ake yi da kyau, daidai? Ba daidai ba
Mu duka mutane ne, kuma cire haɗin da ke faruwa a tsakiyar alaƙa, aure, yara suna girma, aiki, da aiki don ba da lokaci ga wasu, "I," da "Mu," mun taɓa yin abin da kyau, mun yi asara . Laifin waye? Babu kowa! Tsakiyar rayuwa ce, sashi mai wahala, inda kowannen mu ke aiki tuƙuru don ɗaga kai sama yadda za mu iya, kuma kawai ci gaba da cajin dutsen. Dutsen na wajibai da yawa, motsin rai, da ayyuka, da waɗancan ranakun “bari mu je cin abincin dare,” ya zama kwanaki masu ƙarewa, suna bacci akan shimfiɗa da zaran yara sun gama kwanciya. Lokaci ne a rayuwa inda a matsayin mu na mata da maza, muna ɗokin sake haɗa kanmu da muradun mu, da dalilan da yasa muka zaɓi juna, amma a zahiri, wannan na iya zama na ƙarshe akan jerin “yi.”
An gina 'yan adam' biyun '.
Yakamata mu haɗu da wani, yakamata mu sami abokin tarayya, mu ɗanɗana rayuwa tare da duk abin da zai iya kawowa, kuma mu sami damar haɗawa ta hanyar jin mara sharaɗi da goyan baya. Wannan ba gaskiya bane, duk da haka kuma “yakamata”, an ciyar da mu ko ba a ciyar da mu ba yayin girma, ya zama aiki mai wahala, jerin abubuwan dubawa a wasu lokuta da ake ƙarawa yau da kullun. Tunatarwa, Ni mutum ne na farko !!
Ina zaune kusa da abokan cinikina, ina tambaya, "menene ya haɗa ku," "Menene abubuwan juyawa." Kuma "ina kuke so ku kasance ..." Wannan tambaya ce mai ɗorewa saboda tana ɗaukar tunani, tunawa, da kasancewa, kuma duk waɗannan ɓangarorin suna ɗaukar lokaci, kuzari, da tausayawa. Kuma ta yaya zan amsa hakan alhali ba ni da lokacin waɗannan abubuwan.
Mun kasance duk wani mutum mai ban mamaki a matsayin daidaikun mutane, kuma haɗin gwiwa tare da wani shine "ɗauka," don sanya ni, mu ma ya fi ban mamaki. Bangaren da muke mantawa, duk da haka shine mafi mahimmancin sashi, ɓangaren wanda idan da gaske mun yarda da shi, yana jin son kai da rashin amfani. Wanene ni? kuma ina zan fara?
Sadarwa
Sadarwa wani abu ne da yawancin mu ke tunanin muna yi da kyau, kuma idan ya zo kan hakan, muna yin mafi ƙanƙanta, mahimmin mu'amala ko tattaunawa don shiga. Yaya ranar ku? Yaya yaran? Menene abincin dare? Za mu fara ɓacewa daga mahimman lokuta, da zurfin sadarwa mai inganci wanda ke ba mu damar shiga tare da kanmu kawai, amma tare da abokin aikinmu, da kuma hanyar da ke haifar da tausayawa, kasancewa a halin yanzu, da ƙirƙirar kusanci da kanmu kaɗai amma waɗanda muke so da yawa don jin an haɗa su. Yaushe ne lokacin ƙarshe da kuka zauna kusa da abokin tarayya, kuma da gaske kuna magana game da abin da kuke so, ku wanene, wanene "mu?" da kuma yadda ba kawai kuka canza a matsayin daidaikun mutane akan lokaci ba, amma a matsayin ma'aurata ba tare da magana game da yara ba, aiki, da tsarin abinci. Yana da wahala, kuma yana iya jin rashin daɗi, amma yana da mahimmanci don haɗi da haɓaka.
Kun kasance "Ni," kafin ku kasance "mu,"
Timeauki lokaci don amincewa da wannan lokacin da akwai sarari fiye da yadda kuke so, ba kawai yana da fa'ida ba, yana da mahimmanci. Yaushe ne lokacin ƙarshe, kuka kalli kan madubi a kanku, kuma kuka tambaya "wanene ni yanzu, wannan mutumin mai ban mamaki da na rasa kaɗan, amma ina aiki don sadarwa da buƙatu, buri, da so, ta hanyar da yana haɓaka ni da farko, don zama mafi kyawun ni zan iya kasancewa cikin haɗin gwiwa da dangi. Don kasancewa da gaske, da kuma sadarwa da abubuwan da ke haɗawa, sake haɗawa, da ƙirƙirar ci gaba mai gudana, mutum yana buƙatar ɗaukar lokaci don kasancewa cikin rashin jin daɗi na canji, kuma buɗe don ɗaukar haɗarin cewa ni, mun bambanta.
Theauki lokaci don tsayawa da sanin yadda sadarwa, tunani, da kasancewa a cikin lokacin, nan da yanzu na iya juyar da waɗancan tambayoyin zuwa amsoshi don sabunta kai, sabunta "mu."