Soyayya a Aure - Ayoyin Littafi Mai Tsarki ga Kowane Bangare na Rayuwar Aure

Wadatacce

• Daurin aure
• Halayen mace ta gari
• Kasancewa miji nagari
• Ƙauna ta dindindin a cikin ayoyin Littafi Mai Tsarki
• Muhimmancin jima’i a cikin aure
• Nuna gafara ga juna
• Kiyaye Allah cikin auren ku

Yayin da wasu ke tunanin Littafi Mai -Tsarki bai daɗe ba, gaskiyar ita ce wannan littafin yana ɗauke da abubuwa masu daraja game da aure.

Waɗannan ƙauna a cikin ayoyin Littafi Mai -Tsarki sun bayyana dalilin da ya sa Jehobah Allah ya halicci tsarin aure, abin da ake tsammani daga mata da miji, yadda jima'i ke taka muhimmiyar rawa a farin cikin aure, da yadda za a gafarta wa juna a cikin mawuyacin lokaci.

Aure yana da ban sha’awa kuma mai gamsarwa, amma ba koyaushe yake da sauƙi ba. Kallon soyayya cikin aure ayoyin Littafi Mai Tsarki na iya taimaka muku samun jagora da salama don taimaka muku fahimtar dangantakar soyayya.

Anan akwai wasu soyayya a cikin ayoyin Littafi Mai -Tsarki game da yin soyayya, kyautata wa juna, da kiyaye alaƙar ku mai ƙarfi, farin ciki, da koshin lafiya.

Daurin aure

“Saboda wannan dalili mutum zai bar mahaifinsa da mahaifiyarsa ya manne wa matarsa, su biyun za su zama nama ɗaya. —Afisawa 5:31.
Danna don Tweet “Ba shi da kyau mutum ya kasance shi kaɗai. Zan yi mataimaki mai dacewa da shi. - Farawa 2:18
Danna don Tweet “Gama namiji bai fito daga mace ba, amma mace ta fito daga namiji - 1 Kor 11: 8”
Danna don Tweet ”Saboda haka mutum zai bar mahaifinsa da mahaifiyarsa ya manne wa matarsa, za su zama nama ɗaya. Kuma mutumin da matarsa ​​sun kasance tsirara kuma ba su da kunya - Farawa 2: 24-25Danna don Tweet

Halayen mace ta gari

"Wanda ya sami mace ya sami abin kirki kuma ya sami tagomashi daga wurin Ubangiji - Misalai 18:22"Danna don Tweet ”Matar mai hali mai kyau wacce za ta iya samu? Tana da daraja fiye da yaƙutu. Mijinta yana da cikakken yarda da ita kuma ba ya rasa wani abu mai ƙima. Tana kawo masa alheri, ba cutarwa ba, a duk tsawon rayuwarta - Misalai 1: 10-12Danna don Tweet ”Hakanan, ku mata, ku yi zaman biyayya ga mazajenku, domin idan wasu ba su yi biyayya da maganar ba, za a rinjaye su ba tare da wata kalma ba ta hanyar halayen matansu, saboda kasancewarku shaidun idonku na tsabtar ɗabi’unku. tare da girmamawa mai zurfi - 1 Bitrus 3: 1,2 "Danna don Tweet

Kasancewa miji nagari

”Maza, ku ci gaba da ƙaunar matanku, kamar yadda Kristi kuma ya ƙaunaci ikilisiya kuma ya ba da kansa domin ta, domin ya tsarkake ta, ya tsarkake ta da ruwan wanka ta wurin kalma, domin ya gabatar da ikilisiya ga kansa a cikin ƙawarsa, ba tare da tabo ko dunƙule ko wani abu makamancin wannan ba, amma mai tsarki kuma mara aibi - Afisawa 5: 25-27.Danna don Tweet ”Haka kuma ya kamata mazaje su ƙaunaci matansu kamar jikunansu. Mutumin da ke ƙaunar matarsa ​​yana son kansa, domin babu mutumin da ya taɓa ƙin jikinsa, amma yana ciyar da shi yana ƙaunarsa, kamar yadda Kristi ke yi wa ikilisiya, domin mu gaɓoɓin jikinsa ne - Afisawa 5: 28-30.Danna don Tweet ”Ya ku magidanta, haka nan ku kasance masu kula yayin da kuke zaune tare da matanku, kuma ku girmama su a matsayin abokan raunanan raunanansu kuma magada tare da ku kyauta mai kyau na rayuwa, don kada wani abu ya hana addu’o’in ku - 1 Bitrus 3: 7 "Danna don Tweet

Ƙauna ta dindindin a cikin ayoyin Littafi Mai Tsarki

”Babu tsoro a soyayya. Amma cikakkiyar ƙauna tana kore tsoro, domin tsoro yana da nasaba da hukunci. Wanda yake jin tsoro ba a kamalta shi da soyayya. Muna ƙauna domin shi ne ya fara ƙaunar mu - 1 Yahaya 4: 18-19Danna don Tweet ”Soyayya tana da hakuri, soyayya tana da kirki. Ba ta yin hassada, ba ta yin fahariya, ba ta da girman kai. Ba shi da ladabi, ba mai neman kai ba ne, ba ya saurin fushi, ba ya yin rikodin laifuffuka. Ƙauna ba ta jin daɗin mugunta amma tana murna da gaskiya. Kullum yana karewa, koyaushe yana dogara, koyaushe yana fatan, koyaushe yana dagewa. Ƙauna ba ta ƙarewa ... - 1 Korantiyawa 13: 4-7Danna don Tweet "Bari duk abin da kuke yi cikin ƙauna - 1 Korantiyawa 16:14"Danna don Tweet ”Kasance mai tawali’u da tawali’u gaba ɗaya; ku yi haƙuri, kuna jure wa junanku cikin ƙauna. Yi kowane ƙoƙari don kiyaye haɗin Ruhu ta wurin daurin salama - Afisawa 4: 2-3Danna don Tweet ”To, yanzu imani, bege, da ƙauna suna nan, waɗannan ukun; amma mafi girman waɗannan shine ƙauna - 1 Korantiyawa 13:13 "Danna don Tweet ”Don haka yanzu ina ba ku sabuwar doka: Ku ƙaunaci juna. Kamar yadda na ƙaunace ku, ya kamata ku ƙaunaci juna. Ƙaunar ku ga juna za ta tabbatar wa duniya cewa ku almajiraina ne - Yahaya 13: 34-35Danna don Tweet

Muhimmancin jima’i a cikin aure

”Maigida ya kamata ya cika aikin aurensa ga matarsa, haka kuma matar ga mijinta. Matar ba ta da iko akan jikinta amma tana ba mijinta. Hakanan, miji ba shi da iko a jikinsa amma yana ba da ita ga matarsa. Kada ku hana juna sai dai wataƙila ta yardar juna da na ɗan lokaci, domin ku duƙufa ga yin addu’a. Sannan ku sake haɗuwa don kada Shaiɗan ya jarabce ku saboda rashin kamun kai - 1 Korantiyawa 7: 3-5Danna don Tweet "Bari aure ya zama abin ɗaukaka a tsakanin kowa, gadon aure ya zama mara ƙazanta, gama Allah zai hukunta fasikai da mazinata - Ibraniyawa 13: 4"Danna don Tweet "Bari ya sumbace ni da sumbatun bakinsa, domin ƙaunarka ta fi ruwan inabi - Waƙar Waƙoƙi 1: 2"Danna don Tweet "Ina gaya muku cewa duk wanda ya saki matarsa, sai dai saboda fasikanci, ya auri wata, ya yi zina - Matta 19: 9"Danna don Tweet

Nuna gafara ga juna

"Ƙiyayya tana tayar da fitina, amma ƙauna tana gafarta dukan laifuka - Misalai 10:12"Danna don Tweet Fiye da duka, ku ƙaunaci juna ƙwarai, domin ƙauna tana rufe yawan zunubai - 1 Bitrus 4: 8 "Danna don Tweet ”Amma Allah yana nuna ƙaunarsa a gare mu ta wannan: Tun muna masu zunubi, Kristi ya mutu dominmu - Rom. 5: 8 "Danna don Tweet "Amma ku Allah ne mai gafartawa, mai alheri da tausayi, mai jinkirin fushi da yalwar ƙauna ... - Nehemiah 9:17"Danna don Tweet ”Amma ku ƙaunaci maƙiyanku, ku kyautata musu, ku ba su rance ba tare da tsammanin samun wani abu ba. Sannan sakamakon ku zai yi girma ... - Luka 6:35 "Danna don Tweet

Kiyaye Allah cikin auren ku

”Biyu sun fi ɗaya kyau saboda suna da lada mai kyau na aiki tukuru. 10 Gama idan ɗayansu ya faɗi, ɗayan zai iya taimakon abokin tarayyarsa. Amma me zai faru ga wanda ya fāɗi ba tare da mai taimakonsa ba? Ƙari ga haka, idan mutum biyu suka kwanta tare, za su ji ɗumi, amma ta yaya ɗaya kaɗai zai ji ɗumi? Kuma wani zai iya rinjayar ɗaya shi kaɗai, amma biyu tare za su iya yin adawa da shi. Kuma igiya riɓi uku ba za ta iya tsagewa da sauri ba - Mai -Wa’azi 4: 9-12Danna don Tweet ”Ka ƙaunaci Ubangiji Allahnka da dukan zuciyarka da dukan ranka da dukan azancinka. Wannan ita ce doka ta farko, mafi girma. Na biyun kuma kamarsa: 'Ka ƙaunaci maƙwabcinka kamar ranka.' Duk Doka da Annabawa sun rataya a kan waɗannan dokokin guda biyu - Matta 22: 37-40 ”Danna don Tweet “Ubangiji Allahnku yana tare da ku, yana da iko ya cece ku. Zai yi murna ƙwarai da kai, zai kwantar da ku da ƙaunarsa, zai yi murna da ku da waƙa - Zafaniya 3:17Danna don Tweet

Iya duba cikin waɗannan ƙauna a cikin ayoyin Littafi Mai -Tsarki na taimaka muku yin tunani kan auren ku, godiya da tafiya da ku da abokin aikin ku, don yin afuwa lokacin da raƙuman ruwa suke da ƙarfi kuma don kiyaye Allah da kalmarsa a matsayin muhimmin sashi na dangantakar ku.