Wadatacce
- 1. Sanya safiya da maraice na musamman
- 2. Yi amfani da kowace rana don bayyana ƙaunarka
- 3. Ku zo da kyaututtuka
- 4. Yi dukkan bukukuwan tunawa
- 5. Ka tuna da sihirin da ka ji wa matarka
Bayan shekaru da aure, mutane da yawa sun fara mamakin yadda za su sake soyayya. Mu kan yi hasarar haskakawa ta farko, kuma, ba tare da la’akari da yadda muke kula da ma’auratanmu ba, wani lokacin muna ɗaukar soyayyar da wasa. Musamman lokacin da yara suka shigo wurin, da alama mun manta gaba ɗaya don jan hankalin abokan aikin mu. Duk da haka, rashin soyayya a cikin aure na iya zama ƙarshe zuwa farkon ƙarshen, lokacin da abokan tarayya suka zama abokan zama. Sun saba da juna, amma, sannu -sannu soyayya ta ɓace a hankali.
Ga yadda za ku sake farfado da soyayyar a cikin auren ku.
1. Sanya safiya da maraice na musamman
Da yawa daga cikin mu suna yin kwanaki gaba ɗaya suna aiki ko a tsakanin ayyuka daban -daban. Wannan kuma shine dalilin da yasa mafi yawan masu aure ke mantawa cewa kowace dangantaka tana ɗaukar aiki. Suna tsunduma cikin manyan tsare -tsare na nan gaba kuma suna saka lokacin su da kuzarin su cikin aiki ko wasu ayyukan. Irin wannan jadawalin da aka saba yi yawanci yana barin ƙaramin ɗakin soyayya, ban da safiya da maraice.
Kodayake ba za ku ji daɗi ba, safiya wata dama ce mai daraja don fara ranarku cikin yanayi na ƙauna da soyayya.
Tashi kafin mijinki ya shirya kofi da karin kumallo. Sanya shi al'ada, kuma ƙara fure ko bayanin "Ina son ku". Yi amfani da maraice don sake haɗawa da manta game da duk matsalolin yau da kullun.
Kuma zaɓi dare ɗaya a cikin mako guda don sanya shi daren daren musamman.
2. Yi amfani da kowace rana don bayyana ƙaunarka
Soyayya a cikin aure shine game da rashin barin rayuwar yau da kullun ta haifar da inuwa akan soyayyar juna. Al'ada ce kawai don wani lokacin jin kasala har ma da magana, balle tunanin yadda ake bayyana soyayyar ku. Amma, don kula da soyayya a cikin aure, yakamata ku tuna koyaushe don nuna yadda kuke ji ta hanyoyi daban -daban.
Ka mai da shi aikin yau da kullun don nuna ƙaunarka ga matarka. Kasance rungume -rungume, “Ina son ku, zuma”, ko wani abin sha na musamman kamar dafa musu abincin da suka fi so.
Abu ne mai sauki a yi, amma kuma yana da sauƙin yin watsi idan ba ku kula ba. Don ci gaba da soyayya a cikin auren ku, yin amfani da kowace rana don bayyana ƙaunarka dole ne.
3. Ku zo da kyaututtuka
Ba ku buƙatar kashe kuɗi mai yawa ga matar ku don sanar da su yadda kuke kula da su. Amma, dukkanmu muna son gabatarwa. Kuma, kyaututtuka sune cikakkiyar hanya don kula da soyayya a cikin aure. Kuna iya yin naku, saya, rubuta, faɗi. Duk wani abu da kuka sani matarka tana so ko bukata.
Abu mafi mahimmanci shine kada a zama gama -gari. Kada koyaushe ku ba da kyaututtuka a ranar tunawa da ranar haihuwa. Kuma kada ku sanya shi a halin yanzu. Abu mafi mahimmanci shine ku ɗauki lokaci don koyan abin da mijin ku ke so kuma ku tabbata kun ba su. Wannan shine yadda kuke soyayya da abokin tarayya.
4. Yi dukkan bukukuwan tunawa
Ga mafi yawan ma'aurata, bikin aure har yanzu ya kasance ranar da ake ƙauna wanda aka sake yin soyayya da ranar auren su. Suna tuna yadda suke kula da junansu da yadda suke ɗokin fara sabuwar rayuwa tare. Koyaya, akwai ƙarin abubuwan tunawa da shekara fiye da babba kawai.
Don sake farfado da soyayyar, gwada kuma tuna lokacin da kuka fara saduwa, lokacin da kuka fara sumbata, da sauransu.
Rubuta duk waɗannan ranakun akan kalanda kuma fara shirin ƙaramin bukukuwan kowane ɗayan waɗannan ranakun na musamman. Kuna iya yin bukukuwa masu taken, ko kuma kawai sanya shi maraice maraice don ku biyu kawai.
Ta hanyar tunawa fiye da ranar auren ku kawai, kuna ƙara haɗarin sake tunawa da yadda kuka kasance cikin soyayya. Kuma wannan tabbas zai sa ku duka ku shiga cikin yanayin soyayya.
5. Ka tuna da sihirin da ka ji wa matarka
A matsayin ci gaba na shawarwarin baya shine wannan - kar ku taɓa mantawa, ko, idan kun riga kun yi, to ku tuna yadda kuka kasance tare da sabon abokin tarayya. An buge ku da ƙafafunku da hankalinsu, kyakkyawa, halinsu. An burge ku sosai har kuna so ku ciyar da dukkan rayuwar ku tare.
Don ci gaba da soyayyar, kuna buƙatar yin tunatar da waɗannan lokutan daga lokaci zuwa lokaci.
Yi wa kanku, a keɓaɓɓen lokaci. Ta hanyar tunawa da yadda kuka kasance mahaukaci game da matar ku, nan take za ku ji buƙatar dawo da wannan yanayin soyayya cikin rayuwar ku ta yau da kullun. Kuma wannan yana da daraja fiye da yawancin sauran alamun soyayya kuma zai kai auren ku zuwa sabon matakin.