Wadatacce
- 21 ga Satumba, 1996
- 1996-1999
- 18 ga Nuwamba, 2003
- Fabrairu 12, 2004-Maris 11, 2004
- Fabrairu 20, 2004
- Fabrairu 24, 2004
- Fabrairu 27, 2004
- Mayu 17, 2004
- 2 ga Nuwamba, 2004
Da yawan lokaci ke wucewa, kadan da kadan muke jin labarin auren jinsi, wanda nake farin ciki da shi.
Ba wai ban yi imani cewa yakamata mutanen luwadi su iya yin aure ba; haushina ya samo asali ne daga dalilin da ya sa har ma batun ne tun farko.
Luwadi ko madaidaici, soyayya soyayya ce. An kafa aure ne cikin soyayya, to me zai sa mu damu idan mutane biyu masu jinsi daya suna son su auri juna?
Idan aure ya kasance “mai alfarma” kamar yadda masu hamayya za su yi iƙirarin, adadin kisan aure ba zai kai yadda yake ba. Me ya sa ba za a bar wani ya ba shi harbi ba?
Shekaru kalilan kenan da aka halatta auren jinsi a Amurka. Don haka mutane da yawa na iya mantawa da yaƙin sama wanda al'ummar LBGT suka ɗauka a cikin shekarun da suka kai ga yanke hukunci mai girma.
Kawai tare da kowane gwagwarmaya don haƙƙin ɗan adam-Ba'amurke, mata, da sauransu-an samu fitintinu da wahalhalu da dama da suka kai ga daidaiton aure ya zama doka.
Yana da mahimmanci kada mu manta waɗancan gwagwarmayar, kuma mu guji kallon wannan batun ta hanyar ruwan tabarau na 2017. Yaƙin neman auren jinsi ya fara tun kafin yanayin da muke ciki, kuma wannan tarihin shine wanda ya cancanci sake maimaitawa.
Har ila yau duba:
21 ga Satumba, 1996
Ana kallon auren ɗan luwadi a matsayin batun dimokuraɗiyya vs. batun jamhuriya; gabaɗaya, masu bin tafarkin demokraɗiyya suna tare da shi yayin da takwarorinsu na Republican ba fan. Dalilin da ya sa wannan ranar ta manne mini shi ne saboda wanda ke bayan sa.
A wannan rana a cikin 1996, Bill Clinton ya rattaba hannu kan Dokar Tsaro na Aure ta hana amincewa da tarayya na auren jinsi guda da kuma bayyana aure a matsayin "ƙungiya ta doka tsakanin mutum ɗaya da mace ɗaya a matsayin miji da mata."
Haka ne, Bill Clinton iri ɗaya wanda ya kasance jigo a jam'iyyar dimokuraɗiyya a Amurka tun lokacin da ya zama shugaban ƙasa. Ina tsammanin abubuwa da yawa sun canza a cikin shekaru 20 da suka gabata.
1996-1999
Jihohi kamar Hawaii da Vermont suna ƙoƙarin ba ma'aurata jinsi iri ɗaya kamar na ma'aurata maza da mata.
An yi roko ga yunƙurin Hawaii jim kaɗan bayan aiwatar da shi, kuma nasarar Vermont ta yi nasara. A kowane hali bai ba da izinin gay ba aure, kawai ya baiwa ma'aurata 'yan luwadi haƙƙoƙin doka iri ɗaya kamar ma'aurata maza da mata.
18 ga Nuwamba, 2003
Kotun Koli ta Massachusetts ta yanke hukuncin cewa hana auren jinsi daya ya sabawa kundin tsarin mulki. Hukuncin farko ne irin sa.
Fabrairu 12, 2004-Maris 11, 2004
Ya sabawa dokar ƙasa, birnin San Francisco ya fara ba da izini da yin bukukuwan jinsi guda.
A ranar 11 ga Maris, Kotun Koli ta California ta umarci San Francisco da ta daina bayar da lasisin aure ga masu jinsi guda.
A cikin watan da San Francisco ke ba da lasisin aure da yin bukukuwan auren jinsi, sama da mutane 4,000 sun ci gajiyar wannan ƙuƙwalwar a cikin kayan aikin hukuma.
Fabrairu 20, 2004
Ganin ƙarfin motsi daga San Francisco, Sandoval County, New Mexico ta ba da lasisin auren jinsi guda 26. Abin takaicin shine, lasisin janar na jihar ya soke wadannan lasisin.
Fabrairu 24, 2004
Shugaba George W. Bush ya nuna goyon bayansa ga gyaran kundin tsarin mulkin tarayya da ya haramta auren jinsi.
Fabrairu 27, 2004
Jason West, magajin garin New Paltz, New York, ya yi bukukuwan aure na kimanin ma'aurata goma sha biyu.
Zuwa watan Yuni na waccan shekarar, Kotun Koli ta Ulster County ta ba West umarni na dindindin kan yin auren jinsi guda.
A wannan lokacin a farkon 2004, matsin lamba ga haƙƙin auren jinsi ya zama abin ƙyama. Tare da kowane mataki na ci gaba, an sami matakai fiye da kaɗan.
Tare da Shugaban Amurka yana nuna goyon baya ga hana auren jinsi, bai yi kama da cewa za a sami babban ci gaba ba.
Mayu 17, 2004
Massachusetts ta halatta auren gay. Sun kasance jiha ta farko da ta fito daga cikin gidan auren gay kuma ta bar kowa, ba tare da la'akari da yanayin jima'i ba, ya yi aure.
Wannan babbar nasara ce ga al'umar LGBT tunda suna fuskantar irin wannan turjiya daga 'yan majalisa a farkon shekarar.
2 ga Nuwamba, 2004
Wataƙila don mayar da martani ga nasarar ƙungiyar LGBT a Massachusetts, jihohi 11 sun aiwatar da gyare -gyaren tsarin mulki wanda ke bayyana aure a matsayin tsaka -tsaki tsakanin mace da namiji.
Waɗannan jihohin sun haɗa da: Arkansas, Georgia, Kentucky, Michigan, Mississippi, Montana, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, da Utah.
A cikin shekaru 10 masu zuwa, jihohi a duk faɗin ƙasar ko dai sun yi gwagwarmaya sosai don hana auren jinsi ɗaya ko dokar da ta ba kowane ma'aurata jinsi damar yin aure.
Jihohi kamar Vermont, New York, da California sun kada kuri'ar amincewa da dokokin da suka ba da damar auren jinsi guda.
Jihohi kamar Alabama da Texas sun zaɓi sanya hannu kan dokokin da suka hana auren jinsi. Tare da kowane mataki zuwa daidaiton aure, da alama akwai ƙalubale a cikin kotuna, a cikin takarda, ko kuma a cikin roko.
A cikin 2014 sannan kuma zuwa cikin 2015, tide ya fara canzawa.
Jihohin da ba su da tsaka-tsaki kan batun auren jinsi sun fara ɗaga takunkuminsu kan ma'aurata masu jinsi guda da nuptials ɗin su, suna ba da damar haɓaka don motsi na daidaiton aure.
A ranar 26 ga Yuni, 2015, Kotun Koli ta Amurka ta yanke hukunci da ƙidaya 5-4 cewa auren jinsi zai zama doka a cikin jihohi 50.
Yadda Hali da Ra'ayoyi Suke Canza Lokaci
A karshen shekarun 1990, jim kadan bayan da Bill Clinton ya rattaba hannu kan dokar kare aure, galibin Amurkawa ba su amince da auren jinsi guda ba; 57% sun yi adawa da shi, kuma 35% suna goyon bayan sa.
Dangane da wani binciken da aka ambata akan pewforum.org, 2016 ya nuna bambanci sosai ga waɗannan lambobin da suka gabata.
Taimakon auren jinsi ya zama kamar ya juye a cikin shekaru 20 tun lokacin da Clinton ta daga alkalaminsa a duk faɗin shafi: 55% yanzu suna goyon bayan auren jinsi yayin da kashi 37% kawai suka nuna adawa.
Lokaci ya canza, mutane sun canza, daga ƙarshe, daidaiton aure ya mamaye.
Al'adar mu ta yi laushi ga jama'ar 'yan luwadi musamman saboda sun zama bayyane. Karin maza da mata 'yan luwadi sun fito daga inuwa kuma sun nuna girman kai ga wanene.
Abin da yawancin mu suka gane shine cewa waɗannan mutanen ba su da bambanci ko kaɗan. Har yanzu suna ƙauna, aiki, kulawa, da rayuwa kamar sauran mu.
Kamar yadda mutane da yawa suka sami abubuwan da suka saba da su tare da 'yan luwadi da ke kusa da su, mafi sauƙin ya kasance don gane cewa sun cancanci harbi a aure, su ma.
Ba lallai ne ya zama kulob na musamman ba; za mu iya wadatar da wasu ƙarin mutanen da ke son kaunar junansu har tsawon rayuwarsu.