Wadatacce
- Yi magana game da tsammanin
- Koyi yadda ake warware matsaloli
- Gina da kula da sadarwa mai inganci
- Tattauna kuɗin aure a wuri mai aminci
- Kasance masu buɗe ido don warkarwa
- Kasance lafiya fiye da nadama
- Sabuwar nasiha tana da mahimmanci ga aure mai daɗi
Ranar bikin aure na ɗaya daga cikin ranakun farin ciki a rayuwar ma'aurata. Kwanaki da watanni da ke biye da ranar daurin aure suma suna cike da annashuwa da annashuwa yayin da ma'auratan ke more lokacin amarci.
Maganin ma'aurata ga sababbin ma'aurata yawanci shine abu na ƙarshe a zukatan ma'auratan da ba da daɗewa ba.
Ma'aurata da yawa suna ɗaukar maganin ma'aurata a matsayin mafita ta ƙarshe lokacin da akwai matsalolin aure. Koyaya, maganin ma'aurata na iya hana matsalolin aure yadda yakamata idan an bi su tun farkon aure.
Yayin da kuke shiga aure tare da abokin rayuwar ku mai zuwa, yana da mahimmanci ku fahimci waɗanne batutuwa da zaku iya magance su a cikin maganin ma'aurata da yadda zaku koya don gina haɗin gwiwa tare da abokin tarayya duk da rashin jituwa, matsaloli, canza matsayi da nauyi.
Karanta don gano game da abin da tsarin kula da ma'aurata don sabbin ma'aurata ke adanawa.
Yi magana game da tsammanin
Sababbin ma'aurata na iya samun tsammanin tunani, jima'i ko tsammanin kuɗi. Lokacin da ba a sanar da shi ba, tsammanin ba zai cika ba kuma abin takaici ya fara girma.
Kowane abokin tarayya yana shiga cikin dangantaka tare da wasu tsammanin.
A cikin maganin ma’aurata don sababbin ma’aurata, abokan hulɗa za su iya raba nasu tsammanin a cikin yanayi na tsaka tsaki da rashin son kai.
Makasudin maganin ma’aurata ga sababbin ma’aurata shi ne samun kowane abokin tarayya ya yi magana game da tsammanin da ba za su iya sadarwa kai tsaye ba.
Yayin da yake ba da shawara mai ba da shawara na aure mai amfani, mai ilimin hanyoyin kwantar da hankali na iya taimaka wa kowace mata ta fahimci tsammanin ɗayan matar.
Maganin ma'aurata don sababbin ma'aurata yana ba da dama ga duka biyun da ke shiga cikin aure, don saita tsammanin gaskiya kuma kada su sha wahala daga baya.
Koyi yadda ake warware matsaloli
Koyon yadda ake warware matsaloli a cikin aure na iya taimakawa dangantakar ta yi girma. Babu shakka matsaloli za su zo. Labari ne cewa ma'aurata masu farin ciki ba za su sami matsala ko rashin jituwa ba.
Daga lokaci zuwa lokaci, babu makawa za ku saba da abokin tarayya. A tsakiyar rashin jituwa da rikice -rikice, motsin rai yana da girma kuma fushi na iya gina bango wanda zai hana ma'aurata ci gaba.
Maganin ma'aurata don sababbin ma'aurata na iya koya muku da matar ku yadda za ku magance rashin jituwa kuma ku koya wa abokan haɗin gwiwa yadda za su cimma matsaya mai nasara.
Hakanan yana haifar da damar koyan yadda ake magance motsin rai da yadda har yanzu ake nuna soyayya ga abokin tarayya yayin rashin jituwa.
Gina da kula da sadarwa mai inganci
Muhimmiyar nasihar aure ga sabbin ma'aurata ita ce kiyaye ingantacciyar sadarwa ta aure.
Sadarwa mara kyau ita ce ginshikin matsalolin da yawa a cikin aure. Muhimman nasihohi ga sababbin ma’aurata sun haɗa da koyo da haɓaka ingantacciyar sadarwar aure.
Sadarwa mai inganci yana buƙatar sauraro da fahimtar abin da ɗayan yake faɗi. Abin takaici, lokacin da motsin rai ya tashi, kowanne mata yana yawan sha'awar kare muradun su kuma baya iya jin abin da ɗayan ke ƙoƙarin sadarwa.
A cikin maganin ma’aurata don sababbin ma’aurata, mai ilimin hanyoyin kwantar da hankali na iya ba sabbin ma’auratan shawara kan aure da ingantattun kayan aiki kan yadda ake sadarwa da rage buƙatar yin daidai a kowane lokaci.
Tattauna kuɗin aure a wuri mai aminci
Rashin jituwa na kuɗi yana ɗaya daga cikin manyan abubuwan da ke haifar da rikicin aure tsakanin ma'aurata.
A lokacin farjin ma'aurata don sabbin ma'aurata, zaku iya tattauna halayen ku na kuɗi, kuɓuta daga duk wani hasashe game da alhakin kuɗi, raba burin kuɗi na ɗan gajeren lokaci da dogon lokaci, da yin ƙa'idodin ƙasa akan daidaita haɗin kai da daidaikun mutane akan al'amuran kuɗi a cikin aure.
Kalli guru na kudi yana magana game da raba buri a matsayin ma'aurata da yadda ake hada kuɗi bayan aure:
Kasance masu buɗe ido don warkarwa
Wani lokaci mutane a cikin aure suna ƙin jin daɗin aure. Don dalilai daban -daban, ɗaya ko duka abokan haɗin gwiwar za su ƙi zuwa jinya lokacin da auren ke fuskantar matsalolin da ba a warware su ba.
Abin farin ciki har abada yana ɗaukar aiki tuƙuru.
Tare da wasu kyawawan shawarwari masu kyau ga sabbin ma'aurata, ma'aurata za su iya koyon kiyaye dangantakar soyayya da juna, ba tare da la'akari da duk wani cikas da aka jefa musu ba.
Don haka, menene babbar shawara ga sabbin ma'aurata don farawa da ƙafar dama?
Wasu daga cikin mafi kyawun shawara ga sabbin ma’aurata shine zuwa ga tsarin ma’aurata don sabbin ma’auratan su san kansu da abokan zaman su da kyau. Wannan yana ba su damar magance ƙalubalen matakai daban -daban na aure, fahimtar yadda alaƙar su za ta iya bunƙasa yayin da rikice -rikicen aure suka shiga ciki.
Ma'auratan da suka yi aure da suka fara aure tare da magani za su sami manufa da ƙima cikin tsari kuma za su kasance masu buɗe ido don ci gaba da shi a cikin alaƙar lokacin da ake buƙata.
Kasance lafiya fiye da nadama
Wani muhimmin shawara na aure ga sabbin ma’aurata shi ne cewa koyaushe yana da kyau a kasance lafiya fiye da nadama kuma rigakafi ya fi magani.
Za'a iya bin tsarin ma'aurata don sababbin ma'aurata tun kafin matsalolin aure su taso kuma auren zai sami tushe mai ƙarfi.
A lokacin kulawar ma'aurata, zaku sami mafi kyawun shawarar aure ga sabbin ma'aurata akan kuɗin aure, sadaukarwa, sarrafa motsin rai, da jima'i. A lokacin kula da ma'aurata, za ku sami shawara mai amfani ga sabbin ma'aurata don gujewa ko shawo kan duk wata matsala a cikin tsawon rayuwar aure.
Sabuwar nasiha tana da mahimmanci ga aure mai daɗi
Ko kuna neman nasihun aure don sabbin ma'aurata ko kuna son yiwa junanku tambayoyi masu mahimmanci game da tarbiyyar yara a nan gaba, dangi, abokai, sadarwa, ƙa'idodin ƙasa don sarrafa gida-maganin ma'aurata yana ba ku taswirar hanya don gina aure lafiya.
Kalubale za su kasance koyaushe a cikin auren ku. Kuna iya ɗaukar matakin ƙwazo don magance waɗannan matsalolin da kyau tare da ba da shawara ga aure ga sabbin ma'aurata. Bari ya zama babban kayan aikin ku don ci gaba da kyakkyawar dangantaka.